Thursday, 24 April 2014

Men Live/Love to Ignore

How many of you agree with the statement above? I know i do. I know there is a long list of how women generalize men and the things they do, we often argue about this but can we all agree that this way of generalizing men is true? Lol

I was watching an episode of Mad Men last night and i picked this line up from Joan, it stuck to my head like glue, i couldn't stop thinking about how true it is.

While getting ready for work this morning, it popped into my head again and at first i smirked at myself in the mirror then i started to think about how some of my previous relationships ended and i heard myself say 'Wow, damn Joanie you're so right, they do ignore you till you have no other choice but to declare hate'.

“Men don’t take the time to end things. They ignore you, until you insist on a declaration of hate.”
How do men do this? They ignore you, no calls, no messages, you don't see them as much as you used to and all they do is give you excuses, excuses that make no sense and when you ask them outrightly if they want out of the relationship, they either say stuff like 'i only want what makes you happy', thereby saying if you want to break up its fine by me OR 'I'm so busy, i hardly have time and i don't like how I'm not making you happy'… Err guys, ever heard the saying that No matter how busy you are, you will always make the person you love a priority in your life. Men do not have the time to sit and think about how they will break up with you, they just go on about their life, but when you do become a pest and don't get the message then they find a way to blow it all out of proportion and that leads to a fight and if you still don't say 'I'm leaving you' then they will. The fight will justify the breakup, Lol.

I'm no expert, i learn from those around me, my life and mistakes I've made. Ive read somewhere that 'If you do not want to deal with a broke man then get ready to deal with a busy man', yes i hear that but Time is one of the most important things in life, I don't care how busy you are, you just have to make time and if you can't do that then sorry Sir but we shouldn't be together.

What i don't get it why guys can't just come out and say it, 'I want out'. Trust me it is so much better this way than giving the woman sleepless nights, heartache and pain. Women don't have that much of a problem doing this, even when we feel bad about it, why put the guy through pain when you don't want him anymore and he clearly still wants you, just say it and get it over with.

Being quiet and distant doesn't solve the problem, if you want out then you want out, someone will always get hurt. I'll tell you guys now that some women appreciate honesty at the right time. I am one of those.

Have a great day,
Love Lowla :*


  1. Very well said. I totally agree. But it will also b good to get tips on how to remedy this Type of Situation. Lol just kidding. Lovely write up lowla i like

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